April 27, 2009

Weekend trip to the Cave City

Sorry I haven’t been blogging much lately.   With no internet at home, opportunities for blogging after Aaron goes to sleep have been limited!   Photos to follow–I’ve got some good ones, but no bandwidth to upload them.

We had an awesome Easter at Tamuna’s mom’s house, and we’ve been settling into our fabulous new apartment.  Life is pretty good.  I’m working hard and learning a lot.   Aaron has totally settled into his preschool, and his Georgian is just incredible.  The kid knows words I don’t!  He also has a bunch of Swedish buddies from his gymnastics class, and we live near them now.  So it’s been playdate-o-rama the last few weeks, with a steady stream of cool boys coming over to play.

The ancient cave city of Uplistsikhe

The ancient cave city of Uplistsikhe

This weekend, we went with our friends Randall, Levan and Erekle to one of the most amazing places I’ve ever been.  It’s called Uplistsikhe (oop-lees-SEEK-hey), and it’s an ancient trading center on the Silk Road.  The people there carved amazing caves into the soft rock.  These caves have things like coffered ceilings and beams carved to look like wood, deep basins to catch the blood sacrificed animals, and a giant theater with seats carved into the rock.   It was built five centuries before Christ—can you imagine how ancient?

Aaron and Erekle had a blast climbing up and down on the rocks.  Aaron kept yelling, “come here quick!  Follow me!”  And then he’d proceed to give me a five minute lecture on the archaeology of the site.  He made most of it up, but he was totally authoritative.  Another professor in the making.  :-)    I love how curious he is about science and history.  He’s such a smart, engaged kid.

We also went to the Gori fortress, a castle on the hill dating from the 11th-14th centuries.   Aaron started a massive game of “king of the hill” that got all the grownups involved, too.  Randal and Levan were swinging the boys around and letting the kids jump on them and we were all chasing each other around.  We ran and climbed and rolled in the grass and just laughed until we fell over.  The weather was just stunning—sunny and warm, but not hot–and we had a great time all together.

King Aaron at the fortress wall

King Aaron at the fortress wall

I can’t believe spring is finally here!  Yay!!

March 19, 2009

The Buffer Zone

A burned-out house behind a fence painted by Saakashvili before the war

A burned-out house behind a fence painted by Saakashvili before the war

The road to Tkviavi is dark and wet. It’s a gloomy early spring day, and it is raining. The road is well paved and smooth until we turn off and head out to the villages along the way, and then it quickly becomes muddy and rutted. Some of the fences, maybe every third one, are painted the bright yellow of a caution sign. Our driver, Misha, says “this is Misha’s color,” meaning it’s the color of President Mikheil Saakashvili’s party. The fences were painted before the war, part of Saakashvili’s program to win the votes of rural Georgians by paving roads, painting fences, and doing other infrastructure improvement. On the gates to the houses, there are stickers announcing that UNHCR, CARE, USAID or MercyCorps has been there. Every third or fourth house is a burnt-out shell, a husk coated in soot with a missing roof and crumbling walls, now sodden with the winter rain and the spring downpours. On one brick wall in the village of Karaleti, there is a glass box enclosing photographs and printed text. We stop to look at it, hoping that it’s some information for the IDPs about what is going on. Information is in short supply here, and nobody knows when aid is coming, or more importantly, when it is stopping. But it’s a description of a small bridge-building and river reconstruction project; something that seems small and pitiful in comparison to the destruction al around us. We take some photos and drive onward in near silence, interspersed with Dan’s nervous chatter.

Burned out house in Tkviavi

Burned out house in Tkviavi

When we cross the bridge over the Patara Liakhvi river, we begin to be afraid. We have no idea where the South Ossetian border is, actually, but we know we’re within a few kilometers of it in the roughly controlled ex-buffer zone. Things are still in turmoil here, with reports of random shootings and looters coming out at night. But it seems calm, almost dead right now: other than a few knots of village men smoking and talking in the rain, there’s almost nobody outdoors. We’re in an unmarked car, a tiny blue Niva with Georgian plates, and nobody seems to be paying us any attention. We turned back at Tkviavi, too afraid to go on.

There are people here, bundled old women and more knots of men standing and smoking, but the gloom and the rain cast an eerie pall over our journey. At the village of Marana, we stop and take photos of a large house whose walls are crumbling and whose roof is now nothing but a twisted metal frame; a spooky lacework of destruction. In the courtyard, CARE has built a one-room cottage, blandly stuccoed in the color of old paper, for the family to live in. It is tiny in comparison with the wreck of the old house looming over it. Dried grapes, raisins still hanging in bunches, dangle from the vines. Nobody was able to harvest them during the occuption this fall, no wine was made, no pleasant dinners in the courtyard took place.

A woman stopped to talk to us. “You should see the village that was bombed,” she says, and points down a muddy track. The houses we’ve seen so far were looted and then burned by the South Ossetian irregulars, but apparently the houses actually bombed by the Russians were far more thoroughly destroyed. We bump down the road, splashing through the thick sloppy mud as we go. In the center of the village, we see it. It’s a rubble of stones and charred beams and bricks thrown helter-skelter in piles. It’s roofless, completely uninhabitable, a pile of stones where interior walls used to be. There is a white stove half buried in the rubble inside, its door ripped off. Around a corner, there’s a sodden couch, just the top half of it, and a battered wrought ireon bedstead lying crookedly in a pile of stones.

An old woman approached us, her head covered in a complicated tangle of knit hat and scarves. Her face was gray and lined, with a dusting of whiskers on her chin and a single gold-capped tooth hanging loosely in her mouth. She told us that five bombs fell on this village, Marani. The destroyed house we’re standing in front of belonged to her relatives, four women named Kareli: Daribani, Svena, and two other names I did not catch. The woman we’re talking to is Noriko Kareli. She’s stooped, and wears small rubber boots, more like shoe covers, but with no shoes inside. They’re spattered with mud. Behind her, a gray-haired woman with her hair pinned up is dressed all in black. She wears sodden house slippers and is filling a bucket from an outdoor tap. There’s no running water in this village, apparently, and people have to haul water from the central tap to their homes.

Noriko tells us that on the night of August 11, bombs came raining down from the sky. In the house across the muddy road, a bomb landed and killed the man who lived inside. The house is still standing, its roof blown off. The four women who lived in the house we’re standing in front of escaped alive, and they’re in a cottage in Tsmindatsqali. Dan found out that the reason the village was bombed was that it was a Georgian forward position and military forces were there.

Dan says that when Noriko was talking, and when the first woman we talked to was speaking, it seemed as if the war was ten or twelve years ago. It’s the same as in the settlements—people speak in emotionless voices, without melodrama, simply reciting the facts as they were. I wonder why this numbness is so pervasive. Is it a cultural style, a reaction to such horrible events, fatigue with telling and retelling? An emotional defense mechanism? Somehow the very flatness of this recounting seems like something to be investigated rather than to be accepted at face value. Its very tonelessness speaks to a kind of militarization of everyday life that I don’t fully understand.

March 8, 2009

Aaron goes skiing, Caucasus style

Kickin' it old school at Gudauri

Kickin' it old school at Gudauri

Yesterday, Aaron and I went with a bunch of friends to Gudauri, Georgia’s ski resort.   It was AWESOME!  It reminded me so much of Bridger Bowl when I was a kid—laid back, fun, easy, and cheap.   We paid less than $70 for both of us for the day, including transport up there, and had a total blast.

Aaron was amazing.  He’s only really been skiing once before, when he was 3 and we took him to Eldo.  That time, he mostly just laid in the snow and cried.  This time, he was completely in to it!  I figured we’d spend the entire day hiking up the bunny slope and skiing a few yards down.  But after three runs like that, Aaron was zipping along and begging to use the “trail mix” (aka the chair lift).   Aaron got the hang of the chair lift fast, and even yelled “gaacheret!” (Stop!) at the top to get the lift operator to slow the chair down so he could slide off.   He was doing a snowplow like a trooper, which he called “pizza,” since you make a pie shape with your skis.   But then he quickly discovered that he could go even faster if he abandoned pizza in favor of “french fries,” and took off skiing parallel down the slopes.   He had all the elements of skiing covered……except stopping.   Stopping, he managed by taking a forward dive over his skis, turning into a rolling ball of flying poles and sunglasses, and coming to a slamming halt face down into the snow.   But he seemed to take it like a good sport, and as the day wore on, he tumbled fewer and fewer times.

Aaron cruising down the hill---watch out!

Aaron cruising down the hill---watch out!

He had a great time, and was a joy to be with (well, until that last run, when he was tired and cranky).  What a great day–one of those mom and son outings I’ll never forget!

March 3, 2009

Aaron’s first day of Georgian kindergarten

Aaron had a great first day of Georgian kindergarten yesterday.  (But guess who forgot the camera—arrgh!).   He’s going to the local public kindergarten, which has been closed since August since the government was letting refugees live there.  But now that they’ve moved out to cottages, the kindergarten has been spruced up and was open again on the first of March.  Tako, our friend Randal, and I took him there to spend about an hour on the first day and get acquainted with the class and the teacher.

It’s definitely a preschool, not a kindergarten in the sense we think of it.   The kids don’t have formal lessons, they just play and sing songs and go out to the playground.   It’s definitely a bit Soviet in terms of decor.   But the teacher is a gem–her name is Ia, or Violet–and she’s kind, gentle, and fun.   There are about 14 kids in his class, all 5 years old.   Yesterday, about 9 kids were there.  Aaron played airplanes with a boy named Gia, did a puzzle, and then lined up for snack.   They had porridge, which Aaron loved, and bread and butter.  And tea!  For kids!

All the toys are new since the place was cleaned up after the refugees, so Aaron had a great time popping open the boxes and pulling stuff out to play with.  He and a boy named Irakli had a great time with a train set, and pushed the cars all over the table.  One unexpected thing: in Georgian preschools, you can’t really play on the floor, since they’re wood parquet and not very comfortable.   So they all hung out at the little table and played.   Next time, Aaron’s going to bring his marble run game for everybody to play.   He’s going Monday, Wednesday and Friday mornings for about 3 hours.  That seems like enough to give him some kid time and some exposure to Georgian without overwhelming him.

Mexico, warm and sunny.....

He complained mightily about going, but that’s pretty typical for Big A: complain about the unknown, but then love it later.

In other news: Aaron has been talking about Mexico a lot.  “Mom, can we go to Mexico again?”  “Remember when we were in Mexico, and we swam in the ocean?”  “Mom, could we just LIVE in Mexico?”  I guess last fall’s vacation was a big hit!  Thanks for arranging it, Aunt Meg!!

Mexico, warm and sunny…..

February 28, 2009

Hot bread and racha honey

This morning I woke up, and the pantry was bare.  So I hustled down to my local store, a teeny tiny little place about the size of a closet.  I went down the cement stairs into the basement where it’s located, and there, stacked on a chair, were recycled water bottles full of a mysterious substance.  Kvass?  Some unknown Georgian delicacy?   No, it was fresh MILK, right from the farm.  The cows are having calves now that it’s early spring, and they’re giving enough milk that farmers are selling the surplus.  I bought two liters of fresh whole milk.   Then, to top it off, the lady at the store (who is always smiling and very kind, I just love her) showed me that the farmer had also brought homemade yogurt.  It was packed into recycled pickle jars, and had lids fashioned of scrap paper.  Of course, I bought two big jars.

Then I swooped by the tone to buy bread so fresh from the oven that it burned my fingers on the way up to the apartment.   I took out the May honey from Racha that smells of spring flowers, and a jar of cherry preserves that was from the last batch one of my IDP friends made in her village, Disevi, before the war.   What a breakfast!  What a way to start the day!  Aaron gobbled up two bowls of yogurt and cherry preserves, and ate a big hunk of bread with butter dripping off it.   He was one happy little guy!

February 28, 2009

Relics of the War

Bombs sorted and lined up for display

Bombs sorted and lined up for display

When you look around Georgia, even around the town of Gori where the war this summer was the fiercest, you don’t see much to indicate there was a war.  (Well, lots of places in Georgia look like there’s been a war—even if there hasn’t been one there in decades!).    The bombed apartments have been repaired, the bomb crater in front of the government building has been patched over, and everything is pretty much back to normal.  (Stalin’s birthplace and museum, unfortunately, did not sustain any damage.)

"Criminal"

"Criminal"

But on the way back from the village of Skra the other day, we saw a very interesting sight……rows and rows of munitions, laid out on a grass verge by the side of the road.   I have no idea what these bombs are  (George, are you there?), but it doesn’t look good.   While we were taking pictures, a lone soldier appeared from behind a metal gate.   He told us that this place had been a weapons depot for the Georgian Army.   When the Georgians retreated to Tbilisi, the Russians came in and put mines in the facility, the majority of which was underground.   They blew it sky high.

The repeating patterns they made were eerily artistic.

The repeating patterns they made were eerily artistic.

Since then, the Georgian Army has been taking their remaining munitions out of the place and getting them ready for disposal.  Apparently they can’t be sold for scrap metal, since nobody knows if any of these are live and they might go off if somebody tried to melt them down.  So they just sit here,  under a sign that says “criminal.”   It was an oddly eerie sight, all these destructive weapons coated in rust, themselves destroyed or nearly so.

After the mines, the side of the hillside caved in

After the mines, the side of the hillside caved in

February 25, 2009

Improvements in the settlements, official and unofficial

New school going up in Tserovani

New school going up in Tserovani

Yesterday we visited two settlements I hadn’t been to before: Tserovani, which is the settlement closest to Tbilisi (and the one they bring all the visiting dignitaries to), and Skra, which is tucked behind a village outside of Gori.   I was amazed at how different those camps are becoming from Karaleti, the place I usually go.  Karaleti is bare—nothing is going on, nobody’s making changes to the cottages, nobody’s planting because the land is so boggy.    There are no schools or shops or churches there.   But at Tserovani, there’s construction everywhere:  the government is building a new town center right in the middle of the camp, with a brand new school (which will be a big red tile and glass affair, very fancy), a new municipal government building, shops, and a pharmacy.   I was really happy to see this construction going on: it offers a few jobs, and it will help make this into a human community instead of a dumping ground.   I’m sure all these improvements are to make Tserovani into a “Potemkin Village,” a showplace to assure all the foreigners touring the place that everything is hunky dory.   But who cares—at least it will make things better for the 2000 odd residents of the camp.

Me, doing fieldwork in Skra

Me, doing fieldwork in Skra

At Skra, things were different.  The government isn’t doing much there.  But the people themselves are starting to work hard to make this into a place they can live.  They have more land in Skra than they do in Karaleti, and the soil is of decent quality.  Some smart-thinking engineer decided not to space the houses evenly, but to bunch them up in pairs so that each house had more unbroken land to farm in.   Many people at Skra have started tilling and planting.   Some are even putting in crops that will take years to pay off: grape vines and fruit trees.  They’ve been chopping down trees nearby (some of them their the permanent residents” fruit trees, which will surely cause some hard feelings) and using them to create additions to their cottages: creative awnings, front porches, lean-tos to keep firewood dry, and so on.   They’ve laid stone paths to the outhouse, put up handwashing buckets outside, and made laundry lines to dry their clothes.  At Skra, they aren’t just in a holding pattern waiting for aid to appear, as they are in Karaleti.   Perhaps this is because they are generally younger and healthier: people who are very sick are going to Karaleti to be close to doctors and hospitals, while people with more strength chose Skra in order to take advantage of the farmland.  But at any rate, Skra is morphing into a real village, even without specially built buildings like in Tserovani.

A self-built porch on a cottage in Skra

I’ll be interested to see how the locals in the existing village of Skra–the one that was there before the war—take all this.   There’s already a gate to divide the refugee settlement from the existing village.  The influx of refugees is taxing natural resources like forests, as people go to chop down firewood, and the refugees are causing more stress as they sneak out in the night and chop down the host community’s trees in the middle of the night.  Will there be a big conflict between the two groups?  Or will they integrate with one another?

February 21, 2009

Political tensions

Generally, I try to keep this blog light (well, as light as it can get when you’re working with refugees).   But lately, the tension in the air here in Tbilisi has been palpable; I think it’s affecting me in ways I don’t fully understand.   The opposition has demanded that President Saakashvili step down, and they’ve organized protest teams in order to have roving protests that will be harder for Saakashvili’s troops to break up.   These are people with some experience of protests: the last time they rallied, Saakashvili called out the police and the Army and had them fire rubber bullets at the protesters.   Saakashvili is refusing to step down, saying he plans to serve until the end of his term in 2013.

There’s nothing the Russians can do about another war until May, when the snow on the passes over the Caucasus melts and they can resupply their troops in South Ossetia.  And I don’t think they have much to gain with a new war, especially given their economic situation.  But tensions are high: there are periodic clashes on the South Ossetian border, and both the OSCE and the EU report that the situation is volatile.  I hope things calm down dramatically before summer.

If you’re the praying type, pray for peace.  We really need it.

February 20, 2009

Sometimes you win one….

I just got the most incredible, heartwarming letter in my email, and I thought I’d share it with you….

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Dear Elizabeth,

Hi, I don’t know if you remember me or not. We talked years ago about foster care adoption on some forum. I’m thinking it might have been the About.com forums. It was right around the time the courts were terminating your son’s biological parent’s rights. You always told me I could do this and that I’d be a great adoptive mom and I had a thousand excuses of why I wasn’t able to.

About two years ago, I realized I had no excuses anymore. So, I started looking into the process. In August 2007 I had a two day old baby boy placed with me. He turned 18 months last Saturday. We are deep into the process of termination now (actually go to court again tomorrow) and it looks like a sure thing. No father has ever come forward and his mom hasn’t even seen him since he was about 10 weeks old. She really has no interest in him at all.

So, I wanted to thank you. You changed my life, my daughter’s life, and my son’s life. I would have never considered doing this if it weren’t for the lengthy emails from you telling me all about your process with Aaron and encouraging me. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Dana

February 20, 2009

Beautiful Racha

The high peaks of the Caucasus

The high peaks of the Caucasus

Last week, I spent four days talking to peasant farmers in Racha-Lechumi, a beautiful province tucked into the mountains on the northern border.   It was unbelievably gorgeous—like the Rockies in so many ways, but with distinctive mixed forests and a climate so variable that it was spring in the valley and hard winter up on top.  Some of the villages there actually spend three months a year completely locked in by the snow: if people want to get out to the main road, they have to posthole several miles on foot!  I thought you’d enjoy some of the scenery, so here are a few of my photos….

In the center of Ambrolauri, the largest town.  Right downtown!

In the center of Ambrolauri, the largest town. Right downtown!

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Doesn't this little guy remind you of Aaron?

Doesn't this little guy remind you of Aaron?

That's Dagestan on the other side of that mountain!

That's Dagestan on the other side of that mountain!